Hello ,
Philip Yancey, in his book "Reaching for the Invisible God" describes the way God get's blamed for things in this way. "When Princess Diana died in an automobile accident, a minister was interviewed and was asked the question "How can God allow such a terrible tragedy?" And I loved his response.
He said, "Could it have had something to do with a drunk driver going ninety miles an hour in a narrow tunnel? Just How, exactly, was God involved?"
God gives us choices everyday. Isn't it wonderful to know that we can ask Him for direction?
Have a great day and God bless!